Katty Takes Pictuars.

Might be okay, but let's assume I'm completely terrible instead.

allinpartsandpieces:

New song in the War Story trailer is called “Lockdown”
Trailer here (x)

Really excited for this film!

allinpartsandpieces:

New song in the War Story trailer is called “Lockdown”

Trailer here (x)

Really excited for this film!

I have this ring!

… Somewhere amidst my lost possessions.

I have this ring!

… Somewhere amidst my lost possessions.

(Source: pumpkinsoul)

We used to create such pretty things.

We used to create such pretty things.

(Source: n-eptun, via wednesdaysnecropolis)

These colours!
zorkat:

sunflower-mama:

filisexual:

sidneycrosbysdick:

emthroney:

helshades:

renegadepineapple:

m
themanwiththebluebox:

itscandidlycara:

A quick visual guide to the hymen.

good lord yes, important information for those uninformed


The incredible thing is the number of people who ignore that, and the incredible amount of people within that number who are female.
You know, fanfiction writers should realise that a certain number of young female persons are learning about their own body reading fics that always describe the loss of virginity as searing pain + litres of blood.

Are—are there really people who knowingly ignore the fact and continue to perpetuate the myth?

Really seriously though the prevalence of this narrative is really disturbing to me

guess what, your first time is NOT supposed to hurt. Jesus it’s 2014.

Every time I see a post about hymens and virginity, I need to say this and reiterate it and just make everyone understand:
your first time is not supposed to hurt
your first time is not supposed to hurt
your first time is not supposed to hurt
IT IS NOT A REQUIREMENT TO BLEED FOR YOUR FIRST TIME
REASONS YOU MIGHT BLEED FOR YOUR FIRST TIME:
Not enough lubrication.
Not enough preparation.
Not enough foreplay.
Your partner is a giant dicksplash.
TIPS AND HINTS FOR YOUR FIRST TIME THAT I WISH I HAD:
LUBE IS YOUR VERY BEST FRIEND! Yes the vagina secretes a fluid that can act as a natural lubricant but that is not enough for vaginal sex. And for some women (like myself), they do not secrete nearly enough for even penetration, let alone sex. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH LUBE.
FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY!!! You want to be good and turned on, like super turned on, coz the more you’re aroused, the more pliant and warm your vagina is going to be, and it’s more likely to allow a dick in without tearing. Like even when you’re giving birth, doctors nowadays will actually massage the outer rim of your vagina so that everything loosens up and allows A FUCKING BABY TO BE BORN WITHOUT TEARING YOU.
PREPARATION (WHICH IS SOMEWHAT RELATED TO FOREPLAY)!!!! If you have never had anything in your vagina before, you’re probs gonna need a couple fingers in there to help you loosen up. This can easily be tied into foreplay.
A GENTLE, UNDERSTANDING LOVER WHO KNOWS AND RESPECTS THE ABOVE HINTS!!!! You don’t have to be in love with the person you first have sex with, but it should be someone who respects you and your boundaries!!! Before having sex with someone, explain to them these things and your masturbatory experience, your wants and needs. If they don’t respect that THEY HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE ANYWHERE NEAR YOUR VAGINA.
Basically it comes down to this: if your partner says “it’s normal to bleed the first time,” sit him (or her) down and talk to them about what actually happens and how it’s supposed to go. If they respect that, cool. If they don’t, fuck ‘em. Actually no, don’t fuck them, dump their ass and find someone who doesn’t subscribe to the belief that anything as lovely and intimate as your first time having sex has to hurt.
This is a basic patriarchal myth to both scare women from having sex, as well as contribute to the laziness of men in terms of making sex enjoyable for their female partners.
Sex never has to hurt. And don’t you dare let anyone tell you that it fucking has to.
If you have health problems that legitimately make vaginal intercourse hurt, there are a billion other things you can do with your partner, and you should communicate your health issues to every single partner. Again, if they respect that, rock on. If they don’t, tell them ‘adios’ and leave the bedroom.

This is rad and full of such awesome info that not enough people know.

reblogging for educational purposes for my followers. Read the comments!

I quite like vaginas, and the internet has SO well equipped me to prepare my daughter for puberty.

zorkat:

sunflower-mama:

filisexual:

sidneycrosbysdick:

emthroney:

helshades:

renegadepineapple:

m

themanwiththebluebox:

itscandidlycara:

A quick visual guide to the hymen.

good lord yes, important information for those uninformed

The incredible thing is the number of people who ignore that, and the incredible amount of people within that number who are female.

You know, fanfiction writers should realise that a certain number of young female persons are learning about their own body reading fics that always describe the loss of virginity as searing pain + litres of blood.

Are—are there really people who knowingly ignore the fact and continue to perpetuate the myth?

image

Really seriously though the prevalence of this narrative is really disturbing to me

guess what, your first time is NOT supposed to hurt. Jesus it’s 2014.

Every time I see a post about hymens and virginity, I need to say this and reiterate it and just make everyone understand:

your first time is not supposed to hurt

your first time is not supposed to hurt

your first time is not supposed to hurt

IT IS NOT A REQUIREMENT TO BLEED FOR YOUR FIRST TIME

REASONS YOU MIGHT BLEED FOR YOUR FIRST TIME:

  • Not enough lubrication.
  • Not enough preparation.
  • Not enough foreplay.
  • Your partner is a giant dicksplash.

TIPS AND HINTS FOR YOUR FIRST TIME THAT I WISH I HAD:

  • LUBE IS YOUR VERY BEST FRIEND! Yes the vagina secretes a fluid that can act as a natural lubricant but that is not enough for vaginal sex. And for some women (like myself), they do not secrete nearly enough for even penetration, let alone sex. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH LUBE.
  • FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY!!! You want to be good and turned on, like super turned on, coz the more you’re aroused, the more pliant and warm your vagina is going to be, and it’s more likely to allow a dick in without tearing. Like even when you’re giving birth, doctors nowadays will actually massage the outer rim of your vagina so that everything loosens up and allows A FUCKING BABY TO BE BORN WITHOUT TEARING YOU.
  • PREPARATION (WHICH IS SOMEWHAT RELATED TO FOREPLAY)!!!! If you have never had anything in your vagina before, you’re probs gonna need a couple fingers in there to help you loosen up. This can easily be tied into foreplay.
  • A GENTLE, UNDERSTANDING LOVER WHO KNOWS AND RESPECTS THE ABOVE HINTS!!!! You don’t have to be in love with the person you first have sex with, but it should be someone who respects you and your boundaries!!! Before having sex with someone, explain to them these things and your masturbatory experience, your wants and needs. If they don’t respect that THEY HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE ANYWHERE NEAR YOUR VAGINA.

Basically it comes down to this: if your partner says “it’s normal to bleed the first time,” sit him (or her) down and talk to them about what actually happens and how it’s supposed to go. If they respect that, cool. If they don’t, fuck ‘em. Actually no, don’t fuck them, dump their ass and find someone who doesn’t subscribe to the belief that anything as lovely and intimate as your first time having sex has to hurt.

This is a basic patriarchal myth to both scare women from having sex, as well as contribute to the laziness of men in terms of making sex enjoyable for their female partners.

Sex never has to hurt. And don’t you dare let anyone tell you that it fucking has to.

If you have health problems that legitimately make vaginal intercourse hurt, there are a billion other things you can do with your partner, and you should communicate your health issues to every single partner. Again, if they respect that, rock on. If they don’t, tell them ‘adios’ and leave the bedroom.

This is rad and full of such awesome info that not enough people know.

reblogging for educational purposes for my followers. Read the comments!

I quite like vaginas, and the internet has SO well equipped me to prepare my daughter for puberty.

heesco:

Painted the old mate again.. #heesco

All of it. I have to signal boost.

heesco:

Painted the old mate again..
#heesco

All of it. I have to signal boost.

heesco:

Gina the Hutt. #heesco

More Heesco. Gina Rinehart, notoriously guilty of receiving Corporate Welfare wants to reduce the minimum wage in Australia and give herself tax breaks while she strip mines Australia of all of its resources.Fuck this bitch, and I’m expecting Rupert Murdoch next.

heesco:

Gina the Hutt.
#heesco

More Heesco. Gina Rinehart, notoriously guilty of receiving Corporate Welfare wants to reduce the minimum wage in Australia and give herself tax breaks while she strip mines Australia of all of its resources.

Fuck this bitch, and I’m expecting Rupert Murdoch next.

heesco:

Not done with you yet Mr. Abbott! #heesco #fucktonyabbott

LOVE this form of protest. 

heesco:

Not done with you yet Mr. Abbott!
#heesco #fucktonyabbott

LOVE this form of protest. 

I just can’t deal with stasis.


Today I have begun the venture of lightening my hair so that I can transition to the red-brown/black ombre I used to rock. This was accidental after a few months of purple (after black), followed by red. I liked it, and it suited the hell out of me. I looked like some fierce classy vampire. The reason I’ve not gone back to red is my mother, and the likelihood that she’ll make some crack about imitation being the highest form of flattery.

Last time I got a hair cut, I lost 3 inches of solid, deliberate hair growth. Of course, I asked for a trim, letting her know to lose length on the top layer only but what did she do? Virtually shaved my head. So with an ex-hair dresser as a colleague, I’m fumbling my way into a semi-natural DIY at-home approach to hair.

What I’ve done is picked up some anti-dandruff shampoo from Aldi (Australian made! Don’t I feel better) and some bi-carb soda. Whacked about 1/4 cup of it into my shampoo, shook well.

Washed my hair twice through and conditioned with generic Tresseme conditioner for split ends because my hair hates me like that.

After I got out, I dried my hair to a damp state, rubbed coconut oil into my hands (half tsp at a time, you don’t want too much!) and ran my fingers all through my hair until I could feel the oil, but not too much- just enough that my hair was coated.

It does feel a little oily in parts right now, possibly because I overdid the coconut oil. Otherwise, it feels beautiful. I’ll be putting my hair through hell in the next two weeks, so it deserves to be a bit oily. Hopefully I’ll remember to take pictures so I can document this experiment. I’ll also report in on the state of my hair, which I should point out is quite fine and prone to breakage. Thanks, European heritage.

This post was brought to you by ‘I’m sleep deprived and felt like making words go’.

algor-m-o-r-t-i-s:

Preseľany cemetery, Slovakia

On one of the pillars is a skull with snake, on second chalice with a snake. The skull is a symbol of death. The snake is associated with the underground, because it lives on the ground and hides in the joints and cracks. It is a symbol of new life, because it shed from the skin, which may symbolize the afterlife.

Damn. I need to visit places like this.

(via theeverydaygoth)

hawtdamnsteben:

mushroom-nymph:

i will always reblog this cat

The last one the cat in the back is all “the fuck you so happy about”

Mina gets like this when she rolls around in the dirt.

(Source: cynicowl, via fresnel149)

I saw apocalyptica live. They are some serious stage porn. the whole time I was just itching to have my camera in my hand.

I saw apocalyptica live. They are some serious stage porn. the whole time I was just itching to have my camera in my hand.

(Source: product-of-a-white-dream, via esotericallyarcane)

This was me for my birthday dinner last night. My birthday is on Sunday, but I had a really wonderful time and a lot of people came out. Loved it!

This was me for my birthday dinner last night. My birthday is on Sunday, but I had a really wonderful time and a lot of people came out. Loved it!